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A babysitter is going to be a companion to your child when you are not around. She is a caretaker, an educator, and even a mentor to your child. There are two types of babysitters, a live in babysitter and a part time babysitter or the come and go babysitter. A live in babysitter will stay with your child for the entire period of time that you hire her, whereas a part time babysitter will come and go as per working hours.

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Therefore you have to first decide what kind of babysitter you want to employ. Once the time factor is decided, you need to start looking for a babysitter. To look for a babysitter you can give a local advertisement, or you can look for one by the word of mouth, asking your near ones to help you, you can also contact an agency which specializes in babysitter.

You can search the internet and the last option is that you can look on your own. When you get the feedback you should look into the background, skills, qualifications and experience of the future babysitter of your child. When you have zeroed upon one babysitter then comes the time to talk and negotiate. As a parent you have to make your expectations and limitations clear to the babysitter. Discuss with her the basic job of protecting, teaching, loving and playing with your child. Also tell her about how to take care of your child’s meals, laundry, room and personal belongings.

At the final step you should discuss the salary with her. A babysitter gradually becomes a child’s best friend, but that may not be always true. So you should keep checking the compatibility of your child with the babysitter. The relationship between babysitter and the child’s family should be built on trust.

Do not expect a babysitter to be your housekeeper, a maid, your best friend, and your confidant. Always remember she is there for the most important member of your family and your child as well.